Sending Short Love SMS To Your Loved One
If you’re like most people, you like to get love messages from your partner. However, how often are you returning the favor? A lot of people like to get messages of affection, but are less than generous when it comes to sharing. Why is that?
Ask around, and you’ll find out that a lot of people are afraid what their partner will think if they send love messages. Will they think that you are too eager? Will they think the messages are cheesy? Will it turn them off? People aren’t sure whether their loved one will like what they will have to say, so they share things rarely.
If that sounds like you, there is no need to fret. You can send love messages without seeming “lame”; all you need are some pointers to help you out. Here are some suggestions for sending romantic messages via text message, or any other medium you choose.
1-Remember, it’s not about you
When you send someone a love note, it’s easy to get caught up in what they will think of you. Try turning it around and realizing that you can make this experience about them. And when you stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about the other person, you’ll find that it is easier to craft a message they will appreciate.
2-Come up with ideas by thinking about them for a few minutes. It’s easy to get tongue-tied when you’re trying to think of romantic things to say, especially if you aren’t the type to think about those things regularly. If it comes hard to you, just stop for a few seconds and think of what you like about the person. Do they make you laugh? Are they really kind? Think about qualities of theirs that you like, and go from there.
3-Be respectful. There is a time and a place for text messages that could be rated R by the Motion Picture Academy of Arts and Sciences, but if your goal is romance, leave that for another time. If you do this message right, he or she will be showing other people, and you want to make sure that you come off looking respectful and smitten, not creepy and strange.
4-Get inspiration from great writers of another era. If you are having a hard time coming up with something to say, start to read some of the great writers. It may be helpful to read letters that writers wrote to their own loved ones, so that you can get some ideas for yourself. You might end up with a greater appreciation for those authors, as well.
5-Don’t send love texts in the middle of the night. It might seem romantic to send text messages in the middle of the night to your love, but be realistic. Chances are, your partner has a job. Calls and texts in the middle of the night can signify an emergency, and a text about love might not strike them as great at that hour.
Now that you have some ideas in mind, it’s time for you to make your own love messages. Use the pointers here to help you. You will find your partner appreciates it, and likes you even more.